November 28, 2006


Last night we put up our new phony Christmas tree. Once I got the thing out of the box I realized it's 9 feet tall and six feet wide! But the good news is that the lights are on it permanently. We simply hung a few ornaments and congratulated ourselves on a job well done. I realize it's a bit early but since we're leaving on Dec 9...

November 23, 2006

Happy Thanksgiving

I can't imagine a more gorgeous Thanksgiving Day. Here in the desert it's about 72 degrees , just a few clouds. From our 3rd floor balcony we fed the ducks old bread this morning and I pitched a few carrots to the families of bunnies frolicking in the marsh grass. The only thing spoiling this serene picture is the loud, cigar-smoking old men on the other balconies.

We loved Bond on Tuesday. Daniel Craig is a more serious Bond than the others and I like the way they've removed a lot of the sillier aspects of the genre. The realism makes it more suspenseful. Last night we saw The Fountain. Very surreal, but really engrossing. Hugh Jackman is great.

I guess we won't be having turkey today but what we will be having is repeated trips to the ATM machine at the nearby Agua Caliente Casino.

November 20, 2006

Thanksgiving in Palm Desert


We are now at our time-share, Marriott's Shadow Ridge, in Palm Desert, a few miles down the road from Palm Springs. It's a beautiful place, very green, sparkling pools, all that. But it's mostly all about playing golf so the place this week is crawling with the whitest bunch of squares you've ever seen. We usually just drift around seeing movies, gambling at the nearby casino and lounging by the pool. Went to see A Good Year yesterday. It's really terrible. Russell Crowe and Ridley Scott should be ashamed of themselves. Today we're seeing Casino Royale. I love Bond. And to continue further in the Hollywood mode, yesterday we saw Carol Channing at Albertsons, looking at fake fireplace logs. So you see that Palm Springs glamour is not dead, even though Frank Sinatra and Bob Hope are.

November 16, 2006

A Draining Day

I took Hector to the Lipo Clinic at 7 this morning and collected him at 12. He was all doped up and damp and oozy and I barely managed to get him up the stairs and into the [guest room] bed. Now it's 5 pm and he quite literally hasn't moved a muscle in hours. Even though I can hear an occasional snore it's a bit like having a dead body in the house.

November 15, 2006

Wednesday November 15

In typical Berrier fashion, my siblings are all drifting away from the "Christmas at Steve and Hector's" idea in favor of ideas of their own. After some initial disappointment, I think it will work out well. Hector and I have decided to extend the December Mideast trip so that we fly from Amman to Rome and spend Christmas there with the Pope. There's a Marriott in Rome, so the hotel is on points... and we would have to fly past Rome anyway to get back home...

November 08, 2006

Wednesday November 8

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November 01, 2006

Antique Silver and Brass Chandelier

US Customs

We had a nice, quiet weekend. On Saturday I cooked a lovely Beouf Bourginon and had Mark & Arturo & Sonia and Steve & Jeff over for dinner. On Sunday we saw Marie Antoinette, a piece of shit, then came home and watched 8 hours of 24 on DVD. Hector is now in Puerto Rico for 10 days so I am expecting a very quiet weekend ahead as well.

On a different note, US Customs finally released our antique chandelier from Morocco and I picked it up today. What a bureaucratic nightmare. Those Customs guys think they are actual policemen and have to act all tough. However, it was worth the wait. See above.

October 24, 2006

More of an idiot than I thought

God I'm fucking exhausted and it's only Tuesday. I haven't really worked in 6 weeks (some would say my whole life) and I remember now that I don't like it. Traffic is hell going up to North County, I'm having to carry heavy shelving upstairs, and I'm not being paid enough. Waa waa. I thought I would be finished today but I have to return tomorrow to complete the job.

I did see a body on the freeway yesterday. There was a crowd standing around a guy that had jumped from the overpass. He was dead, quite dead.

I see that Bush has changed his tune re: the Iraq War. If he thinks that lame story is going to fool anybody he's even more of an idiot than I thought. It's all about votes in November.

October 23, 2006

Monday Monday

It's Monday morning and I'm in a holding pattern re: today's work. My client disappeared over the weekend and I'm waiting waiting... It was a good weekend though. Saturday, we met Orrie at a new Moroccan restaurant called Cous Cous in Hillcrest so we could dish everyone that was on the tour with us. Flirted with the waiter from Marrakech, had some wonderful lamb, beef, veg and couscous. Sunday, Hector and I had breakfast at The Mission, then came home and relaxed.

We did get my air tickets for the Mideast trip in December. I was hoping it would be a bit cheaper than last time but, no, it was not. $8k. It's all those business class upgrades. But I'll be damned if I'm going to fly 16 hours in coach while Hector is languishing in business class. One leg of our journey is on Emirates Air, which I hear is really fa-fa-fa. And another is a BA flight from London to Dubai and word is that's pretty nice as well.

Poor Hector had to fly to Oregon last night. He'll be gone all week, but then he has 4 days off, then to Puerto Rico for 9 days. Then he has a whole month off after his lipo. He'll be slim and rested for Dubai.

October 20, 2006

London, Morocco, San Francisco, New York


Well, goodness! What a month... I loved Morocco. Frankly the trip was so full I don't know where to begin. But we did a lot of walking (it was, after all, a 13-day walking tour), a lot of eating (yummy tagines of lamb & veg or beef & veg), lots of shoppping (bought a huge carpet, antique chandelier, camel saddle bag, clay tagine, yellow pointy shoes) and I can honestly say I've never met a friendlier people than the Moroccans. Really, everyone was warm and welcoming, even in the small villages where they didn't speak anything but Berber. Everyone was curious and sweet. And those adorable Berber boys! (see Mohamed above)

I also had a wonderful time in London. It was low key. We had a good visit with my cousin Babs before she left for Dubai, saw Billy Elliott and I really enjoyed it. Had dinner with friends we met in Ecuador and just strolled about a lot. We stayed at the Grosvenor House on Park Lane and it is our official hotel now. It's old and funky but really elegant and directly across the street from Hyde Park.

Back home for one day then we left for San Francisco. Gorgeous weather, discovered a couple new restaurants, and of course a nice hike in Muir Woods. I got a haircut. Then on to New York. We stayed at the Marriott on Times Square and although the hotel is nice and remodeled I hate Times Square, it's such a crowded freak show. Also discovered a new Thai restaurant, visited the Natural History Museum (wow!) and happened to be walking on the East Side, past the building that got hit by an airplane, right after it happened. So we joined the thousands of gawkers in the street, chatted with everyone, then made our way back to our freak show. I didn't make it to Las Vegas, which was next on the itinerary, because of flight delays in Chicago. So we spent the night in Chicago, then I just came on home. Thank God. I was exhausted. I have no idea what time zone my brain is in but I'm still going to bed at 8pm and getting up at 4am.

So I'm home for a while, until December when I'm joining Hector on a biz trip to Dubai, Cairo, Amman.

Morocco





September 17, 2006

We're Off!

It's 2 nights in London, where we'll see Billy Elliott, then to Fes for 13 days walking in Morocco, then back to London 2 more days- dinner with John and Karen, a charming couple we met travelling in Peru and Ecuador. Back home for a quick turnaround, then off for 2 days San Francisco, 2 days New York, 2 days Las Vegas. Photos to follow!

September 12, 2006



Brother Lucien, Groom Ron, Bride Sandi, Me, Brother Keith

September 03, 2006

Sandi's Wedding

I've just returned from a whirlwind weekend in Dallas for my sister Sandi's wedding. We flew in Friday evening after many delays due, first, to poor airplane maintenance, and second, bad weather. I left the hotel once the entire weekend. We stayed at the beautiful Adolphus downtown, where the wedding was held and it was fun to see everyone- all the sibs, and the nieces and nephews and such. We all had our significant others with us so we were all pretty mellow.

Sandi's wedding was very nice and simple (fitting for a middle-aged second marriage, rather like Charles and Camilla) but I find it so exhausting to have to get all dressed up and remain presentable for more than a couple of hours. Especially after a cocktail or two. I was the DJ for the ceremony, which entailed switching among 3 songs Sandi had chosen for the various entrances and exits. The Wedding Song went on for so long that the maids of honor were throwing me filthy looks.

After the wedding and the dinner, a small group of us took over the jazz lounge and I polished off a bottle of red wine alone so today I'm rather weary. It's wonderful to be back home now, I'm going to scour the kitchen for dinner then go to bed. Ta ta.

August 29, 2006

Mission Accomplished!



Bally Arakis in Black Calf

Size 10D

$395

August 28, 2006

Las Vegas





We drove over yesterday, Sunday. Five and a half hours. It's always easier heading here than heading home. No Mark and Arturo this time, it's mainly a work trip for Hector. And we're staying at the Paris, not our beloved Bellagio. After checking in, we wandered around a bit, and played at a few casinos after we arrived. And, surprisingly, I won a total of $800 at 4 different machines at 3 casinos. I was hot. And now early this morning, to confirm my fears that my lucky streak was temporary, I just lost about $100 in less than an hour. Oh well. I'm now heading over to Kenneth Cole at Caesars Palace to buy a new pair of dress shoes before I squander the rest of my winnings.

August 25, 2006

TGIF

This has been a busy, physical week with work. Lots of hauling heavy bookcases up to the 2nd floor at Jim's and schlepping all my tools everywhere. So I'm looking forward to our upcoming 3 nights at Paris Las Vegas. I'm even looking forward to the 5 hour drive over on Sunday. It's a work trip for Hector so while he's doing his song and dance I'll be at the gym, the pool, the spa or the slot machines!

August 23, 2006

Suspicious activity

This morning at 130 am I awoke to the sound of car doors out front. I looked out the window and saw a police cruiser driving away. My immediate thought was, "are they here for me?", an instinctive reaction that I haven't shed since my pot-head days in college in the 1970's. But now, returning home, I see my neighbor's car is being towed, or more acurately: repossessed. So it's odd that a cop would be snooping around his car at 130 am but as they say...rather him than me.

August 22, 2006



My brother Lucien, me, my cousin, my brother Keith, Crawford

The Wright Family:
Mom is upper left, Uncle Harold is bottom second front left





My new cousin, Barbra, and her husband, Crawford

Just squeaked past a birthday over the weekend. A very low-key one, compared to the over-the-top celebration of last year. But we had dinner with Jorge & Elsa at Park House Eatery on Thursday, then dinner with Mark & Arturo at Pacifica Del Mar on Friday. By Sunday I was ready for cheese and fruit in front of the DVR. Hector bought me a beautiful jacket and trousers to wear to my sister's wedding in 2 weeks.

We just returned from a family reunion in Waxahachie. The Wright Reunion (Mom's side of the family) is held every 3rd Sunday in August at the Optimist Youth Center. I haven't attended in 35 years but the place hasn't changed one bit. We all went so we could meet our newly found cousin, Barbra, from the UK. It's the big news in our family: My long-dead Uncle Harold served in York, UK during WWII and apparently did a bit of fraternizing with a local married girl, whose own husband was serving in Europe. Anyway, Uncle Harold eventually returned to Texas and never told a soul what happened. 60 years later, Barbra decided to search for her birth parents, which led her ultimately to my cousin in Waxahachie Texas. And although her birth mother rejected her attempts at contact, we all welcomed her and actually smothered her to death with attention. She and her husband are really fun. She got to meet tons of cousins and saw hundreds of old family photos.

Hector is working in Costa Rica this week, I'm catching up with clients, then we are driving to Vegas on Sunday. It's a work trip for Hector, a pleasure trip for me.

August 07, 2006

Monday

I took Hector to the airport at 5 am today then had a pit stop at Starbucks on the way home. It was so nice on Adams Avenue that I sat out front for a bit to enjoy the sunrise. Now home, I need to prepare for the electricians who are coming soon to install the new lighting. Ceiling is scraped, house is clean, a long to-do list awaits me this week.

August 02, 2006

Back home now. The remainder of the trip was wonderful. After 2 nights at Monte Sagrado (and wishing there was a 3rd) we drove back to Santa Fe and re-checked in at Inn at the Loretto. Suddenly the city was overflowing with tourists and we discovered that the annual Spanish Market was scheduled for that weekend. We caught a bit of it before leaving on Saturday and there was some impressive folk art but everything cost $3000. I suppose they price things for the rich New Yorkers who jet in just for this show. Needless to say we left empty handed. Even the children's art section was overpriced. I'm so sure I'm going to pay $85 for a 10-year-old's painting of the baby Jesus.

Today, Wednesday, we have the ceiling scraper crew in to remove all the "popcorn" (acoustic texture) from the ceiling. They are making an unbelievable mess and we're not allowed upstairs for any reason. Floating down the stairs is a lot of dust, a few curious trickles of water, and the occasional whiff of pot, so at least they are finding satisfaction in their work.

July 27, 2006

New Mexico for 4 days

We're in Taos. We arrived in Santa Fe on Tuesday afternoon and checked into the Inn at the Loretto. Beautiful lobby and pool but the rooms are a bit faded and the bath amenities smell like bubble gum. We met Kent, Bob and Rob Lang at Senor Lucky's for dinner, then we joined the boys across the street at a big party being held to celebrate some community Awards Ceremony, which had just let out. Everyone was there, the mayor and all the local celebrities. In fact it seemed like the whole town was there, I don't know who was actually working and who was a guest. Left there, home to bed.

Wednesday after breakfast at Pasqual's we drove up here and checked into our beloved Monte Sagrado spa. It's the first time we've been here this time of year and everything is so lush and green. Last night there was a very dramatic thunderstorm and around 830 Hector and I were stunned by a nuclear flash of light, an incredibly loud crack and for a few seconds the air was sizzling and our hair was standing up. Lightning had struck a huge cottonwood tree right out back in the Sacred Circle. It split a seam 35 feet long from the ground up and threw scraps of kindling 50 yards away. I just spoke to another guest who was outside when it happened and it threw him to the ground and broke his camera. So we got our money's worth this trip.

Hector is currently being massaged and facialed. I'm getting a massage from Alex at 3.

July 20, 2006

Hot as Hell! Although I really shouldn't complain since I see that Dallas is having 104 today and London is having record heat as well. My paltry 82 degrees, 71% humidity seems negligible.

Electricians are here destroying the house this week. We're having new much-needed lighting installed in every room and they are carving long furrows in the ceiling to run their wires. A fine toxic powder of plaster is covering everything. One of them is cute but I caught him listening to Christian music yesterday.

I'm so disgusted with Israel, almost as disgusted as I am with Bush, inc. Innocent Lebanese are being pounded into the dirt and these fucking war-mongers won't even issue an official call for a cease-fire.

On a lighter note, I was thrilled with the footage of Bush at the G8 summit, chewing with mouth open, making the usual hillbilly remarks, looking like the bumpkin he is.

May 13, 2006

LIMA

Saturday May 13, I believe

After flying all the way to Miami to catch a red-eye to Lima, we are finally here. We were collected at the Lima airport at 430 a.m. by a chatty A&K rep (Julio) who handed us our portfolios and itineraries and plane tickets for upcoming flights, then got us checked into the beautiful Miraflores Park Hotel. Then off he scampered into the night.

Hector and I slept a few hours and now I can't remember a word Julio told us. I do remember our driver being stopped twice by the police, with Julio giggling and saying they were just trying to shake us down because we were in a nice car. He told them we were from the US and they made themselves scarce. Hmm. I didn't know that had any pull, I would have suspected the opposite. And now I have a vague recollection that we are on our own until 2pm Sunday. We strolled about this afternoon, I just finished a great massage with Antonio and Hector's having his now. I suspect we'll do room service dinner.

The hotel is right on the Pacific but the fog is so bad that we can barely see 100 yards. Apparently this is more common than not here. Our room is very nice, they call it a suite but that's a stretch. It just has as much furniture as a suite, but it's all in one room. The bathroom is spectacular, however- an important component. So we'll see a bit of the old downtown tomorrow, then we depart for Cusco early on Tuesday.

May 09, 2006

A NEW LEAF

I have a brand new laptop and brand new wifi in the house so I'm all set to restart this tired old travel blog, even though it seems I've driven away everyone who ever came near it.

So in a nutshell, there was Puerto Rico at Christmas, a fabulous 2 weeks in the Mideast in March, then a lovely Big Sur road trip over Easter, followed by a quick trip to Dallas to pay last respects to Dad, and on the heels of that- a nice little 5 day jaunt in Chicago where the weather was not icy and bitter but a balmy, welcoming 70 degrees. And Friday we depart for the long awaited Abercrombie & Kent trip to Machu Picchu and the Galapagos Islands!

Get ready, put your reading glasses on!

March 28, 2006

Cairo, Kuwait, Doha, Beirut


Beirut Cafe




Byblos, an ancient Phoenician port near Beirut
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Cairo, from our hotel
Welcomed to Kuwait by the Royal Family
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Shopping at the Kuwait airport












Flying in to Beirut
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at Giza

February 14, 2006

Another successful avoidance of Christmas

So veddy, veddy remiss in my blogging... It's like dieting. If you stop for a moment, you're lost.

So let's see... a lovely trip at Christmas to the Florida Keys and then on to Puerto Rico. We flew into Miami and breezed south out of there without so much as a backward glance. We stayed two nights at the charmless Marriott Key Largo. It was a bit too cool for swimming so we drove along the Keys and enjoyed the views. It's amazing that you're driving along the highway and 5 feet to the right is the Gulf of Mexico and 5 feet to the left is the Atlantic Ocean. This goes on for hours.

On Christmas Eve we drove on down to Key West and checked in to Alexander's, a gay "resort", typical of its genre. This one was co-ed so there was no nude sunbathing; no hot tub hanky-panky, unlike those 24-hour-a-day orgies one "hears about" in Palm Springs' gay resorts.
Key West is really charming but God it's dull. Quaint neighborhoods and popular Duval Street lined with bars and restaurants. Like Bourbon Street, when you walk down it the next morning it smells like vomit and piss. So I'm happy that I experienced Key West but I don't really need to go back. We did have a wonderful meal at Pisces Restaurant. In fact, we had 2 good meals there.

On to San Juan. Stayed at the San Juan Marriott, overlooking the Atlantic. Here it was nice and warm, we walked all over the old section (Old San Juan), had some fabulous Puerto Rican meals and even gambled a bit in the hotel casino. Old San Juan is very picturesque, we didn't even bother to go looking for the more modern downtown area. One day we drove to El Junque, the rainforest. We also drove to the little town where Hector spent his formative years. We found his street but weren't sure about the house so we stopped across the street and asked an old man who was gardening if that was the right address. I'll be damned if he didn't look up and say "are you Jorge Ramirez' son?" So we were hugged and dragged into the house to see the old wife, who spoke some incomprehensible version of Spanish at me the entire time. I spent a lot of time smiling and nodding.
After a few days there we headed toward our final destination, Rincon, a beach community on the western side of the island, pretty much where the Caribbean and Atlantic Oceans meet. We stopped at the breathtaking Arecibo Radio Telescope, which I'd wanted to see since an episode of NOVA a few years ago. Out in the middle of the jungle, in a huge natural depression, is the largest radio telescope in the world and it's just amazing. This is the place that has located many of the new planets and stars found in the last few years and also where NASA looked for communication from outer space as part of the SETI program. We hung around over an hour, just staring at the damn thing until its constant electronic beeping drove us off.

We made it to Rincon around 1pm and checked into the Rincon Beach Hotel, which was an instant disappointment. They first put us in a room with a view of a parking lot and the childrens playground. Then they moved us to a slightly better room facing the opposite direction. If you crossed your eyes and hung over the balcony you could see the ocean. And this room was $350 a night! So we grumbled and made some noises about changing hotels but after a few phone calls we realized that wasn't going to happen, nobody else wanted us at any price. So we walked down to the beach and it was so spectacular we changed our tune a bit. Gorgeous white sand with swaying coconut trees and a gentle slope down to the calm blue Caribbean. Heaven. Not another hotel in sight. So we basically spent the next 2 and a half days down there, reading, sleeping, eating, frolicking in the warm, gentle surf. The hotel food was decent, although the staff was apathetic, but the beach made it all okay. The hotel was occupied by a few European families and many, many Jews from New Jersey. They were fun to talk to, or at least listen to.

On New Years Eve we had a dress-up dinner at the fancy-schmancy Horned Dorset Primavera Hotel. Were back in bed by midnight and got up early on New Years Day to drive back to San Juan to catch our flight back home. All the cranky mommies and daddies with their awful kids were sitting around us the whole way.

December 18, 2005

Jesus it's cold this morning. Hector left early to go to Ensenada to take his worthless father for a Xmas breakfast. I declined. With all the traffic at the border God knows when I'll see him again. The lines are just incredible because all the Mexicans are coming to do their Christmas shopping. Good for our economy. Rumor has it there's a 3 hour wait coming back across into the US.

We went to 2 parties last night. Jim S and Tom F had a big party with delicious Mex Food (Mark catered) at their beautiful place in Mission Hills. Got a chance to catch up with all the old queens who were at our party last week but I didn't have the time to schmooze. Around 9:45 we left that one, and with Mark, Arturo, Sonia and Robert in tow, we went over Kensington to attend a smaller, duller party. Hardly knew anyone. We stayed less than an hour. Nice house, though. One of those clinging miraculously to the hillside, with a huge deck overlooking Fairmont Avenue. The kind where the next day's headline reads: Holiday Tragedy at Hillside All- Male Gathering.

December 16, 2005

Where HAS the time gone?

I spent the whole day sitting at this fucking computer: balancing my wreck of a checkbook, returning a few of the emails I owe, finalizing and confirming our Key West and Puerto Rico plans. Put that one off a bit late since we're leaving in 5 days. Got our flights, cars, hotels, dinner reservs for X and NY Eve.

Did manage to complete, yesterday, the built-in bookcase for the Garbers. They were remarkably patient with all my comings and goings.

Now it's time to relax with a vodka tonic and an episode of MI-5. Don't have the energy to do the posts for Taos, San Francisco, Chicago.

October 17, 2005

4 days in Las Vegas




Hector had to do a presentation in Las Vegas on Saturday so naturally we arrived on Wednesday. Because Harcourt was picking up the tab we decided to save a buck or two this time and stay at Paris instead of Bellagio. But we did have a lovely 31st floor view of the Eiffel Tower (1/2 scale), the dancing fountains and faithful old Bellagio across the street. (See terrible cellphone photo.)

I lost a lot of money so I'm still a little pissed off about the whole trip but I will say that we had two wonderful dinners and saw a great show. We were a bit disappointed in the room. It was looking a bit worn.

On Thursday evening we had dinner at Mon Ami Gabi, the "French Bistro" at Paris. They have great steaks and seafood. I had my usual filet mignon medium rare. Then we took the tram down to MGM Grand to see the new Cirque du Soleil show, Ka. It was really spectacular. We were brought into the auditorium by the ushers dressed up as Cirque freaks, with crazy hair and all their oddities showing. The place was all decked out like an underground factory or something but all we could see of the stage was a deep pit with smoke and fire belching out like a volcano. As the show began, huge platforms rose up and floated above the stage with no visible means of support and all the activity took place on these floating platforms. It's a bit less acrobatic than other Cirque shows and, sadly, there's not much skin. But it's loud and exciting. $150 a ticket. They're getting a bit full of themselves. Even Elton John tickets at Caesars Palace can be had for less.

On Friday night we returned to MGM to have dinner at Joel Robuchon. This is a brand new place, very hot, French chef, his first U.S. restaurant, oo la la. It was clear from the beginning that all this fanfare was going to translate as: breathtakingly expensive. We stepped from the pandemonium of the casino into the hushed elegance of the restaurant through two huge glass doors. The dining room was one of the most beautiful we've ever seen and from the first instant, the service was just remarkable. It was so well choreographed that we never lifted a finger to pour a glass of wine, never looked twice at a dirty plate and, best of all, I was escorted to the men's room each time I went (3 times) and had a lovely brand new napkin waiting at the table when I returned. There were only two choices on the menu: an 11 course tasting menu ($169) or a 19 course tasting menu ($259). We each chose the 11 course and the sommelier chose two half-bottles of wine for us, a California white and a French red. There was a fresh bread cart with a dozen varieties and at the end, after dessert, a chocolate cart with scores of delicate little candies and truffles and bon bons and all kinds of nonsense. So we sat for 2 and a half hours, ooohing and aahing over each little gorgeous nothing that was put in front of us. And it was all delicious. No... more than that, it was all flawless. Can't wait to go back. Already started saving up for it.

Other than not winning any fucking money, the only unfortunate thing was that it was a big sports weekend and by Friday morning the hotels were all full of loud straight guys acting like jackasses. It was a relief to get out on Saturday afternoon. As always, nice to come home to wonderful San Diego, where there is at least a bit of moisture in the air. I was begining to mummify after 4 days in the desert. And we have a new bed- a king sized Heavenly bed, very aptly named. On Sunday, after Hector left for Lima, I piled up in that bed watching Miss Marple DVDs all day.

October 11, 2005



My President

September 30, 2005


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September 03, 2005


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September 02, 2005

The Golden Jubilee Tour of British Columbia

August 21, 2005
At last, I've arrived and, yes, still breathing. This trip was all about me turning... um...fort...no, okay...fifty.
For over a year, Hector was all hopped up in the planning stages of a big Las Vegas blowout to celebrate. At first the idea sounded pretty good: nice room at Bellagio, a couple of dinners in my honor surrounded by a few friends. But then, in the spring, when the guest list topped 35, and he and Mark started speculating about the cost of Cirque du Soleil performers, I spiraled into a panic and eventually admitted I'd rather just take a little trip somewhere to celebrate with Mark and Arturo.

Vancouver: So we arrived late last night, direct flight from LA, picked up our boat, I mean car (monstrous Ford Explorer) and arrived at the Four Seasons around 1130pm. I had booked the four of us into a 2 bedroom suite but happily discovered we had been upgraded to the "Prime Minister Suite" at no additional cost... 37th Floor... gasps as we were escorted into the foyer. I was sure we'd been taken to the convention center in error. A two-story living and dining room with a large bedroom suite attached. Then, upstairs, yes upstairs was a humongous bedroom & sitting area. The damn thing had 3 marble bathrooms, 3 TV's (don't think we ever got around to turning them on) and best of all, 2 minibars. After about an hour of running around giggling and opening doors, we settled down, had a drink to calm ourselves and went to bed. It was luxurious. As we snuggled into our down pillows on the padded king sized mattress, I thought, "fifty is not so bad after all..."

Next morning, we lolled about in thick robes for a couple of hours and decided to have a room service breakfast so we just about ordered the whole menu. They brought it up, laid it out and by golly we ate it. Waffles, eggs, bacon (both types!), toast, muffins, potatoes, it was shameful.

Although reluctant to separate ourselves from that suite, we drove over to glorious Stanley Park and had a carriage ride. Stanley Park is perched at the tip of a peninsula overlooking Burrard Inlet. It's a 1000-acre forest paradise five minutes from downtown. There's biking and hiking paths and it's where I saw my first ever black squirrel. The day was clear and warm, there were lots of people out, but we had yet another cranky tour guide on our horse-drawn carriage ride. In fact she actually drove off and abandoned some Italians who had gone to use the restroom at one of our stops. Oh, she was tough. We dared not ask questions. Ironically, we later ran into the very charming tour guide we had on that same carriage ride 3 years ago. I went over to speak to her and she immediately said "I remember you." How charming is that?

After a hike through the primeval woods we drove over to Granville Island. This is the kind of place Hector enjoys for the humanity but I have to say I don't ever need to go back there. It's the Fisherman's Wharf/Pikes Market/Quincy Market of Vancouver. Get the picture? Manufactured old world charm. We each had a plate of something unsatisfying for lunch. Looked at t-shirts and magnets and other claptrap but time was running out and we were eager to get back to our luxury nest, so we raced back to the hotel and frantically did some more lolling about before dinner.

We had reservations that night at Bishops. The only thing I knew about this place was its website and a good review in a guide book but it looked promising so I chose it as the place to celebrate my bd, Hector's & my 8th anniversary, and Mark & Arturo's 8th anniversary. (they're all around the same date.). Well! We had one of the best all-around dining experiences we've ever had. All four of us agreed. The table, the room, the attentive service, and the food! I had the dungeness crab cake to start- delicate and flavorful without being too fishy. It was divine. And for main course I had the Fraser Valley lamb in four parts- a chop, a sausage, loin and shredded. Spectacular. Mark chose a delicious wine and we sat there for 3 hours and killed about 3 bottles. The staff was falling all over us (not just us, everybody). We were giddy with all the attention. We left in a stupor and, after a half-hearted attempt to visit a gay bar, we just went home and went to bed.

Monday Aug 22
After a lovely buffet breakfast downstairs with the non-Prime Ministers, we lit out for the ferry station at Tsawwassen (love that name) to catch our ferry over to Victoria. We arrived in plenty of time to catch the 11:30 am ferry but unfortunately our reservation was for the 10:00 am ferry and I had misread the email. So they sternly put us at the very end of the "hopefuls" line and said we "might" make it onto the next one. It's fascinating to sit there watching the whole production of the ship slowly pulling up, huge gates opening, hundreds of cars driving off- then the excitement of our turn, will there be space for us? We were in a cold sweat until the time we actually pulled onto the ship, at the very end of the line. It's a gorgeous 90 minute ride through picturesque islands and narrow straits. And a bit chilly up on the observation deck but it's fun to see all the various nationalities and age groups of the other travelers. A good mix of locals, backpackers, lunatics and yuppie tourists.

Victoria
Arrived early afternoon at Schwarz Bay and decided to immediately drive to our hotel to check in. The Aerie is located a few miles north of Victoria up in the mountains overlooking an inlet called Finlayson Arm. This one I found through their website and I knew it was a doozie. We arrived, all agog at the views and the elegant surroundings and after lunch we were escorted up the hill to the private property called Villa Cielo. We had two suites, the Delphinus and the Aquila, both on the ground floor, separated by a communal lounge area. It was all so gorgeous and enchanting we decided right then we'd just order dinner to be brought up to us so we could sit on the terrace and enjoy the view. Sure enough, they drove it up the hill in a golf cart and laid it out on a white tablecloth for us. We spent the entire evening snacking and drinking wine, watching the sun sink behind the mountains as hawks soared overhead. We could see the lights of Victoria flickering on and, in the far distance, past the Strait of Juan De Fuca, we could see Port Angeles, Washington through the clouds.

Next morning, Tuesday, after breakfast in front of a breathtaking view in the dining room, we drove a few miles down the hill to Spectacle Lake, a small pond with a hiking trail encircling it. We walked through the trees for about an hour and a half, passing only a few others hikers. Then we drove over to Butchart Gardens. This is the most beautiful garden I've ever experienced. It was built by a wealthy couple who wanted to make use of the land that was once a quarry. So the property itself has deep ponds, sunken gardens, waterfalls and is incredibly groomed in a way that can only be achieved by a full staff for a century. We spent about 3 hours there and an additional hour in the gift shop.

Drove over for lunch in Victoria. With the weather being so inviting there were all sorts of tourists around, and since Victoria's downtown is so compact it was a bit like being in a stadium. We had lunch at Pagliacci's, a little Italian bistro, strolled the Inner Harbor for a few hours, snooped around the famous Empress Hotel but we heard the call of our little Mount Olympus so we drove like lunatics back to the Aerie. Nap, cocktails, solitude, then we glammed up and went down the hill to the dining room for yet another birthday dinner. Earlier in the day, Mark had made friends with the chef and the hotel owner, Maria, so they came over for a visit and made us feel like VIP's. All the other guests were envious, probably thinking we were movie stars.

Wednesday, August 24
A sad day, farewell to Victoria, farewell to the Aerie and the sort of luxury we can't usually afford and certainly don't deserve. As we were checking out, Maria ran out to pose for a photo with us, what a sweet lady. With promises to return, we drove off down the hill and actually had one last glimpse of a family of deer grazing on the hillside.

Made it back to Victoria a bit early for our ferry to Seattle so we wandered a bit more, took a few photos, wept over leaving the Aerie and killed time. We had already returned the car in Victoria so we boarded the high-speed ferry on foot and took off. There was no good observation deck so we just sat inside the cabin for the 2 1/2 hour journey. Great views of downtown Seattle as we approached, disembarked, collected our luggage, passed customs, stored our luggage and climbed the hill up to Pikes Place Market for some deliciously greasy fish and chips. Bought cheese at our favorite cheese shop, and then grabbed a cab to the airport. An uneventful flight home, but as always, returning to San Diego's weather was like a warm embrace.

British Columbia Photo Album

September 01, 2005


Steve & Hector in Vancouver Posted by Picasa

View from our room, Villa Cielo Posted by Picasa

The Villa Cielo Victoria, BC Posted by Picasa

August 10, 2005

Seattle


Steve at Pike's Market, Seattle Posted by Picasa

This was another Harcourt trip where I hid in the suitcase and went along for the ride. Seattle weather was wonderful, like Southern California, and the locals were all thrilled. We stayed at the new Marriott Waterfront and got a room on the 5th floor overlooking Elliott Bay. We had a great view all up and down the embarcadero and across the bay to Bainbridge Island. As soon as we arrived we wandered up the hill behind us to explore Pike's Market. It was jammed with tourists, of course. All these places are identical. I'm constantly amazed at the ridiculous junk people will buy. Later we walked back and had dinner at Cafe Campagne. I had the pork pate and the trout almondine. Both were delicious.

Hector had to work the next two days so I just wandered. I took a Grey Line tour of the downtown area and had the worst tour guide I've ever had. She was so boring that I got off after 2 stops, at Pioneer Square, the "old" section of downtown Seattle, where I grabbed a bite to eat and spent a lovely couple of hours browsing in Elliott Bay Book Co. I bought Freddy and Fredericka by Mark Helprin, What's The Matter With Kansas? [How Conservatives Won the Heart of America] by Thomas Frank, The Clumsiest People in Europe or: Mrs. Mortimer's Bad-Tempered Guide to the Victorian World (hilarious), In A Sunburned Country by Bill Bryson (travels in Australia) and The Geographers Library by Jon Fasman, which I since discovered I already bought and never read, damn it!
I also stumbled around trying to find Seattle's "Chinatown" which was clearly marked on the map but it turns out it's 2 Chinese Restaurants and a laundry and that's about it. Got back on the next tour bus to come around three hours later and it was HER AGAIN! Got off at Pike's Market and just walked back to the hotel.
Tuesday night we met Hector's co-worker, Enrique, at Salty's. Big seafood restaurant across the bay in West Seattle with gorgeous views of Seattle skyline at night. It was okay. Tourist food. Weak vodka tonics.
Wednesday night we ate at the much-recommended Pink Door, sort of a bohemian bistro with no sign out front just a, you guessed it, pink door.
Thursday home. Horrible flight. I was stuck in the middle seat surrounded by babies screaming in my face and blowing drool everywhere. Foul babies.

August 09, 2005


Mary Carlisle Blakeley Posted by Picasa

LA

In order to escape the stress of San Diego Gay Pride, I went up to LA on Friday night and checked into the Century City Courtyard, an old favorite, and now recently remodeled with a Hollywood theme. (what else?) Traffic was the usual nightmare but I made it in 3 hours. I met Bill Graff for dinner at the Fabiolus Cafe on Sunset at Vine. Very nice with an outdoor patio. Then I dropped him off at his apartment, he's still living in the Navarre, the place I moved out of in 1994 when I came to San Diego. The outside hasn't changed.

On Saturday morning I met Garry Corgiat at his pad in Santa Monica, which I had not seen before and I loved. Full of all the wonderful eclectic junk he collects. His new show is starting soon on VH1. It's a reality show starring the horrible Danny Bonaduce of Partridge Family fame. Garry is the shrink who tries to help him straighten out his revolting life. They did 13 episodes and he's waiting to see if it will be popular. I can't imagine that it will be because Danny Bonaduce is a real pig but then look at all the other crap that's on TV.
Later I drove over to Jane Abbott's house in Northridge. Hadn't seen her in over a year. We got caught up on all the Texas and Hollywood gossip, saw the garage she turned into a guest room. Then we had dinner at Macaroni Grill, a big family style place where they are constantly singing at you and making stupid jokes, but the food was good. Then drove back to Century City (15 minutes!) and cuddled up in my big king sized bed with air conditioner cranked up full blast.

The next morning, Sunday, I took an early drive through Beverly Hills and West Hollywood to see all the changes since I was there last. W. Hollywood is all tree-lined and European-looking and even the gay bars look exotic. In B.H. all the old bungalows are disappearing and the Arabs have built palaces in the style sardonically referred to as "Iranian Modern". They finally pulled down Natalie Shafer's old rat trap of a house on Rodeo Drive. Across the street at Mrs. Blakeley's house, things are exactly the same as ever. It's crumbling around their very ears but Mr. Blakely is 96 and can barely walk and she's so tight she won't spend a nickel. So she got me to patch some rotten molding in the foyer and to shore up the delapidated pool house but mostly I just spent the day listening to her reminisce about the old days. And I mean the old days. She showed me the old pictures of her visits to Hearsts' castles in San Simeon and Wales and I was asking her about Ivor Novello (she screamed, "Jim! Wasn't Ivor Novello a friend of Noel Coward?") and Greta Garbo (she owns a bed once owned by Garbo) and Marion Davies and all the old gang. I asked her if she's still entertaining as much as she used to and she just laughed and said, "Oh, no, dahling. Everybody's dead!"
It was a great visit. They're so old I'm afraid there will be fewer and fewer of them. When I went in to greet Mr. Blakeley he said "Well hello, Steven, come in. I'm just sitting here trying to stay alive." After I left their house I raced back home in 2 hours 15 minutes- a new Sunday afternoon record!